Attitude is most powerful. It can alter in positive and negative ways. Insight into your attitude is perhaps even more important.
I have a new friend. His name is Norman. He is the cat who lives next door. I have done nothing to encourage a friendship with this feline. Originally, I shooed him, I barked at him, and I even squirted some water at him. But for some reason, the cat likes me? When I am working in the yard he hops the wall and comes over to me (unbeknownst to me) and snuggles in and out of my lets while I fertilize, trim, or weed in my garden. He likes me to pet him? At any rate, it is hard to not like a cat that acts like a dog! And, I am a dog person. This is the first cat that I can honestly say I like.
The other day I was panning some concentrate from a trip in the desert. I was looking for gold. When I had searched for the gold and found nothing, I would toss the pan of water in the tree well nearby. I was about to do the same thing when I saw Norman lying in the tree well sleeping! He was exceedingly happy lying in that well with the breeze blowing over the water to his left in the well and over him. He passed with an A in school for studies of evaporative cooling! HAHA. What a smart cat! Anyway, Norman and I are friends now and I sort of take care of him. He knows when I am in the yard and immediately hops the fence. I give him cat “treats” and water since it is pretty hot in Arizona these days.
In the evening, I will go out and sit and look at the stars, and soon, Norman will be there. I know he’ll be there so I put his snacks in my pocket beforehand.